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One cannot live without friends, but also cannot make too many friends. Young and ignorant, I always feel that the more friends the better. It is only in middle age that people slowly understand that it is an extravagant desire to have three or five confidants. Those friends who have experienced common tribulations and storms together must cherish it. There are a thousand cups of wine every confidant. Those friends whose three views are the same and whose souls are in harmony must be cherished. People in middle age learn to do subtraction. Those friends who have forgotten righteousness and good-for-nothing friends should stay away as soon as possible. People have sorrows and joys, and the moon is cloudy and clear. This is hard to come by in ancient times. The joys and gains of life are as difficult to change as the fullness of the moon. Manpower is exhausted. Facing the ups and downs of life, we have no other way but to accept. I've seen flowers bloom and fall, and I've seen fu...

  Due to the deviation of the values ​​of a few people, the majority of people’s hearts are fluctuating and uneasy, which affects the chaos of the entire society. Some people have almost regarded stability as an abnormality, and uneasy as normal, so that some people have created imbalances. The atmosphere is normal. I even saw a number of representatives of public opinion and members of the National Assembly who were gentle intellectuals when they got along in private, and they played desperately in front of the media on the forum. This is also caused by the deviation of image values, because the media's views, audiences and readers like this taste. Everyone originally hopes to pursue stability and peace, but while everyone wants their own peace, they often neglect whether they will affect the peace of others when they show up. Just like between people, when they meet, they may also greet "Are you well? How are you?" But is it really initiated from the heart? Able to sinc...

  It is probably good for people to go to higher places. "The low ground becomes the sea, the low man becomes the king", to hold the low point of life is a kind of pure and restrained, it is a kind of steady posture that must be straightened in life, a kind of humble speech that must be suppressed, and a style of life that must be calmed down. Throughout the ages, although the road to fame and fortune is full of traps, it is still bustling. The heights of fame and fortune have created endless prosperity and excitement, as well as countless tragedies. And caution at the bottom is the safest. The more you are proud of the spring breeze, the more you have to lower your body and work diligently. Some people are self-righteous and good to be a teacher. But I don't know that there must be my teacher in the three-person line, and ask others for advice in a humble attitude, learn from others' wisdom, and get inspiration and lessons from them, so as to form their own opinions....

To be a human being, it doesn't matter if you are poor, but you must speak up. He is a true gentleman if he speaks his words. You must do what you promise others, and don't lose faith in others, let alone avoid responsibilities. Don't make promises lightly, and would rather suffer more than lose your integrity. To be a man, not to be raped, and to be open and open is the only way to be at ease. Do not be lazy and go far. He doesn't care about being a human being, with an open-minded smile. Treat people, don't be perfunctory, but believe in everyone's praise. Life has been up and down for decades, 30 years in Hedong, and 30 years in Hexi. As long as the credit is there, dare to assume, be responsible, keep promises, and no matter how poor, some people will respect it. As a human being, you must speak up. If you borrow someone else’s money, remember to return it as scheduled; if you promise someone else, you must do it. Never let down the trust of others in you, i...

 There are two families in the village, One is poor and one is rich. Drink water from the same well together, One uses a golden bowl and the other uses a ceramic bowl. The former feels rich, The latter considers himself poor; The former was satisfied with vanity, The latter fell into unnecessary troubles. But they all forgot, What I need is "water", Rather than a "bowl of water." We do the same in our lives, Don't be bothered by things you don't need! Life is like a bowl, To be worthy of the delicacies of mountains and seas, It must be able to hold whole grains and light rice. Can pour in all kinds of fine wines, It can put soup and water. Don’t choose, take responsibility, Not cold or arrogant, you can rely on. Life is like a bowl, Don't be arrogant. Do everything within your ability, Do what you can do as much as you can. .Small hands hold a big bowl, and the bowl will fall when your hands are tired. Small bowls fit large pieces, and the bowls will bre...

  The most comfortable relationship between people is that no one has to please anyone. If we invite too many people into our lives and they can't get into our hearts, it will only disturb our lives. We don’t need to live what everyone likes, and we will never live what everyone likes. A well-known painter worked hard to create a painting that he believed to represent his highest level. He believed that no one would dislike this work. So he took the finished manuscript to the street and placed it in the most conspicuous position on the street, and added a note next to the manuscript: "Please mark what you feel is not good on the drawing." The result was unexpected, and the superscript was full of marks. The painter was surprised and deeply disappointed. At the same time, I am also very puzzled that my level should not be like this. A few days later, the artist brought an identical painting and placed it in the most conspicuous position on the street, but the...

A person's future is like the ups and downs of waves on the sea, with low tides and high tides from time to time. When confronted with difficulties, many people either do fortune-telling, ask for fate and change their luck, or pray to the earth and grandmother to resolve them, hoping that the future will be prosperous, but they are often flustered and unsuccessful. In fact, the trough of life is not as terrible as we think. As long as we muster up the courage, adjust our mood and face it with strength, we can even use adversity to create a brand new self. Behind the achievements of the great virtues and sages in ancient times, all came from an insistence on ideals. Clenching the roots of your teeth can stimulate your potential, increase your strength, and move forward courageously. The trough will never disappear, it will only continue to appear. No matter where you are in your life, you may face new difficulties. Any success is not for no reason. Those who are good at operating at...

 People are the product of habits. Numerous habits are interspersed in daily life to form a complete life. The height of life is also determined by habits. Good habits will benefit us for life and continue to bring benefits to our lives, while bad habits will silently affect us in our daily lives. When people reach middle age, there are many crises, and the pressure of life is like a tide, which makes it difficult for people to have time to breathe, but all this may not be a bad thing. I once heard an old Zen master say that when you want to cross a river, you cross it. But if you are just dreaming and not doing real things, after all, you can only follow the trend. The so-called "crisis" means that there are dangers and opportunities. Where your opportunities are, it depends on both the sky and the people. The so-called "seven parts of personnel and three parts of the sky", do the "personnel" well and let nature take its course, "opportunities" ...

Your kindness cannot be pretended, it is a natural temperament. Life is alive, and every person's life is innate. Although the day after tomorrow will be changed due to the difference in cultivation, if you don't reborn from the inside, you won't become any other unknown feelings because of your perfunctory and covering. Everyone's social existence is deeply imprinted by different social understandings. However, no matter whether you work hard to change things, whether you are deliberately deliberately ill-fated, you can only truly understand the roots of life if you are compassionate and tolerant. Only by doing this, can we say without exaggeration: Where is the traitor, what can we compete for, be indifferent to the world, magnanimous, and plain and indifferent is true. From this point of view, the life of dealing with people is better to be devoted and kind. A kinder life will not be regrettable! Over the years, I have heard and witnessed, subtly, and I have known th...

  Story 1: Empty cup mentality A scholar asked a respected old Zen master about Zen, but he kept talking about his views. The old Zen master was silent and treated each other with tea. Seeing that the tea was almost full, the old Zen master didn't stop. The scholar said anxiously: "Don't fall anymore, it will overflow immediately!" The old Zen master said calmly: "You are like a cup full of water, filled with my own prejudices and opinions, how can I say Zen to you?" Life requires a mind to embrace all rivers and the spirit of seeking new knowledge. In the face of the unknown, always have an empty cup, and there will always be good tea and surprises waiting for you. Story 2: Empty ship When a person crosses the river by boat, a boat on the opposite side is about to collide. The man shouted several times, but no one responded, and he cursed the sailor for not having eyesight. But when he found that it was an empty ship that had hit him, his anger just disappe...

Between lowering your head and raising your eyebrows, the water and mountains have grown for many days. The so-called forever, for a lifetime, is just the time for a flower to bloom; the so-called colorful, it is just an east wind. The life that I once thought could not reach the end is just the distance from germination to yellowing of a grass. And on this unknown journey, we have to walk half ignorantly and half slowly comprehend. Young and young, do not understand love, are not afraid of making mistakes, do not understand the vicissitudes of life, do not know the regret of wasting time. When drifting away, experiencing wind and frost, walking through the desert, feeling the desolation, and trekking through the night, I finally understand why some songs I have heard are so heartbreaking, how ridiculous things I have done, and how worthy people I meet are to treasure . That's it, suddenly realized at a certain moment. Maybe it was when reading a poem, maybe it was standing in fron...

We inevitably have time to ask for help. As beneficiaries, we often reciprocate with "please have dinner another day". "I invite you to dinner another day." Some people just talked about it. They owed favors, selectively forgot, and were criticized. Someone earnestly fulfilled it. After asking the other party to eat, they did not owe each other, lost interaction, and gradually became indifferent. So, for those who help you, please don't use "please eat" to repay you. Others give you umbrellas in the rain, you must learn to give charcoal to others in the snow, mutual benefit, symbiosis, and win-win cooperation. No one is obliged to help you, don't take the other person's kindness for granted. People with truly high EQ will adhere to the "principle of overpayment" when repaying favors and turn gratitude into practical actions. The essence of social interaction is exchange, but it is not equivalent exchange, but just like loan sharks, it...

Get, lose, meet, leave, come and go, overlap and change. The dark river of life never opens, never stays, what is left, deposited, flowed away, and passed away, what is the true meaning of life? Life is never a burst of fireworks, but only for temporary splendor. The essence of life is tranquility and satisfaction. Money, fame and fortune are like passing smoke, life is one's best work. Living well is more important than anything else. Live your life well and love life. Life is neither as good as people think, nor is it so bad. The most important thing in life is not where you are, but what you feel and where you are heading. It is never possible to live your life well with the mentality of getting by and making do-it-yourself. No one knows what life will become in the next moment. Only by working hard and being positive can life get better and better. Only a positive heart can withstand the sudden wind and rain. Live your life well and focus on yourself Life is most afraid of comp...

When a person comes into this world, he is destined to experience the torment of wind and frost, joys and sorrows, and sorrow. Any life is an arduous journey from beginning to end. It is necessary to bear the burden of fate and to appreciate the sufferings and joys of the world. , Not necessarily always full of complaints. Life can always be lived on. The only way to go is the road. Don’t think the road is bumpy or muddy. Life is originally tortuous. At any time, whether life is difficult or simple depends entirely on how you adjust yourself and adapt to life. May as well face yourself openly, face life openly, get rid of some unnecessary burdens, and let go of some unnecessary desires. When facing troubles or predicaments, this is the best time to look at yourself. You can put everything aside, be a primitive self, see your true inner self clearly, think carefully, there is no real pain in this life. The so-called pain is just the difference in our inner feelings. Many thoughts are st...

Know yourself before evaluating others. There is a person who is very close and far away from oneself, very close and very close, easy to remember and easy to forget, this person is ourselves. Before we evaluate others, we must first learn to know ourselves. What qualifications do you have to label others if you don't even recognize yourself? When we know ourselves, we must learn to grow our eyes in our hearts and observe ourselves; we must grow our mouths in our hearts and comment on ourselves. I always think: Who is this person who is ready to evaluate others? Is he an expert in this field? If not, then it’s best not to talk about it and make people laugh; if it is, then it’s best to mention it pleasantly. Wake up and give pointers to others instead of arrogantly teaching. Only in this way can your emotion and reason complement each other, will not cause trouble for yourself, and other people will not alienate you. Forget yourself before accepting the evaluation. It’s a well-know...

 There are five different levels of meat, and people are divided into three or six or nine levels. The weak are blindly gregarious and continue to perish; the strong get along well and are loyal to their hearts; the wise are good at being alone and strengthen themselves. Life is very different, and there are always many differences. The way a person interacts with others is the level and height of a person. The world always regards other people's views of themselves as more important than their own lives. So they cater in every possible way, forcibly gregarious, and thus lose themselves and cause irreparable harm. There was a wealthy businessman with two sons in the family, both of whom were at school age, and the wealthy businessman sent the two brothers to the best school in town to study. When they first entered the classroom, the two of them studied very hard and devoted all their energy to their studies. The other brothers in the same discipline only know to skip...

Thank you for the past, and for the joy of your original intention, Look farther and enlarge your field of vision. Possess in life, with mixed flavors, in various poses, Light and darkness, gathering and scattering, grace and grudge, All should go with the flow. There is no hurdle to pass, there is no need to be depressed and entangled. It should be calm and calm! Gone, come; willing, reluctant, And it is the place of thought, as expected. Fortunately for me, no worries about losing! Don't forget your original intention and move forward calmly! We will never reject this prosperous world, After all, we were born in the dunya, How can we not touch the fireworks in the world. Just facing the money and fame in front of me, Still have to be calm. Work hard with a kind heart, Go hard. Instead of being selfish, Get it by all means. after all, We don't want to live with guilt. There are so many things in life, Destined to be difficult to obtain. The heart should be reserved and indiffe...

A gray-haired old professor said in the last class of the students’ graduation: “This is the last class I will give you. This is a simple experimental class and also a profound experimental class. I hope you will be able to Always remember this last lesson." As the professor said, he took out a glass container and poured half a container of water. The professor put the container of water into the freezer on the side and said, "Now we will refrigerate it." After a while, the container was taken out, and the water in it condensed into crystal clear ice. The professor said: "Below 0°C, this water becomes ice, which is another form of water, but when water becomes ice, it cannot flow." "Now, let's look at the third form of water. " While talking, the professor put the glass container of ice on the alcohol stove and lit the alcohol stove. After a while, the ice gradually melted into water, and then the water was boiled, and plumes of milky-white water ...

 There used to be two people, one was a weak rich man and the other was a healthy poor man. The two envy each other. The rich man is willing to sell his wealth in order to get health; the poor man is willing to give up his health at any time in order to become rich. A world-renowned surgeon discovered the exchange method of the human brain. The rich man proposed to exchange his head with the poor man. The result is: the rich will become poor, but can get a healthy body; the poor will be rich, but will be sick. The operation was successful, the poor man became a rich man, and the rich man became a poor man. The rich man who soon became a poor man has a strong body and a sense of success, gradually accumulating wealth. At the same time, he was always worried about his health and made a fuss when he felt uncomfortable. Because he was always so worried and frightened, over time, his excellent body returned to the original sick state, or in other words, he returned to the former wealthy...

 A philosopher once said: "There is no other way to be happy, that is, don't worry about things you can't do." Forgetfulness can make people face life more calmly and calmly, so as to maintain a happy and healthy body and mind forever. A man took a hatchet and went to his hospital to chop bamboo. Suddenly he felt sick in his stomach, so he put the hatchet on the ground and sat down to rest for a while. When he looked up and saw the bamboo, he couldn't help but mutter to himself: "There are many bamboos here, and they are about to be used at home, but unfortunately I didn't bring a knife." When he stood up, he saw a kitchen knife on the ground next to him, and said happily, "Tian Sui People wish, I don’t know who left the knife here." Later, I went home and wandered in front of the house for a long time: "I look familiar, who is this?" It happened that his wife went out and saw him. Knowing that he had forgotten, she scolded him. H...

1. Only when you save money for your users can you make money Today I met an entrepreneur. He said something that touched me a lot. He said that we would never make money from our clients. We just did one thing: "We only save money for our customers and take a little from them.". What does he do? He was in the central kitchen to help those high-end restaurants cook the prepared dishes. If I ask him, what are you going to cook?Do you want to chop the fish head with pepper?Do you want steamed knife fish? He said we wouldn't cook that simple dish, such as steamed knife fish.She could just steamed it in the restaurant. What are we doing? We have made some dishes that need a lot of preparation in the early stage, such as red cooked pork, sweet and sour spareribs, and lion meatballs. I made them in the central kitchen, which is much cheaper than the labor cost he made on the spot. All we need to do is to save money for our users, and then split a little from...