Settle Oneself

One cannot live without friends, but also cannot make too many friends.

Young and ignorant, I always feel that the more friends the better.

It is only in middle age that people slowly understand that it is an extravagant desire to have three or five confidants.

Those friends who have experienced common tribulations and storms together must cherish it.

There are a thousand cups of wine every confidant.

Those friends whose three views are the same and whose souls are in harmony must be cherished.

People in middle age learn to do subtraction.

Those friends who have forgotten righteousness and good-for-nothing friends should stay away as soon as possible.

People have sorrows and joys, and the moon is cloudy and clear. This is hard to come by in ancient times.

The joys and gains of life are as difficult to change as the fullness of the moon.

Manpower is exhausted.

Facing the ups and downs of life, we have no other way but to accept.

I've seen flowers bloom and fall, and I've seen full moon and missing moon.

Life will naturally have a calm mood.

Everything is in the heart of a person, as long as this heart is not moved, everything is naturally calm.

Kindness is better than greatness.

No matter how great a person's credit is, no matter how famous he is, if he loses his kindness, he is nothing.

Those subtle kindness, bit by bit, gather in the river, and what is contained in it is the mystery of human proliferation.

To sow goodness is to sow the future.

People forgive each other and bear each other, so that we can travel long distances together.

Sowing kindness is to accumulate blessings for yourself.

Heaven does not deceive kindness, and the kindness that is paid will eventually return to you.

Sowing kindness is warm in itself.

To warm others is to warm yourself, to light up your heart, and to make the world no longer barren.

Life is hard, everyone is moving forward with burdens.

When people reach middle age, don't imagine that the years are peaceful, but face the high pressure of the world and the misery of life.

Let go of the meaningless face, let go of complaining.

Don't back down, don't escape.

Fall down, act bit by bit, and take responsibility.

You can't see the rainbow without wind and rain, and behind all the brilliance is countless suffering.

Don't be scared by yourself, we are far stronger than we thought.

Time will always go on, and days will always move forward.

If you are very calm, as long as you are willing to bear it, sooner or later there will be a day when it will rain and the sky will clear.

People are not addicted and cannot be crossed.

Everyone must have their own hobbies.

Hobbies are the spice of life.

If life consists of only work and family, then a hundred years of life would be too boring.

Hobbies are also the practice of life.

The ancients said: Enter the Tao by art.

A person develops hobbies and does what he likes, and after a long time, he will naturally become familiar.

Hobbies are the refuge of life.

If a person has the interest of lifelong love, no amount of suffering will bring him down.

No matter what the situation, he can please himself.

When people reach middle age, they get out of complicated affairs to discover their inner interests and hobbies.

When you are immersed in it, your life will change little by little.

Not pleased, not to have compassion.

After a person reaches middle age, he should be more aware of gains and losses.

No amount of wealth can be brought by life or not with death.

Suffering from gains and losses for things outside the body is really not worth the gains.

There are only three meals a day in a thousand hectares of fertile land, and a bed of three feet in the tens of thousands of rooms in Guangsha.

Only when you are alive can you be happy when you are content.

Don't be led by the nose by desire.

Only by letting go of gains and losses and pursuing spiritual abundance can one gain inner peace.

No one is born to be good to anyone, so we must learn to be grateful.

It is love for others to help you, not duty.

Don't take the gifts and kindness of others for granted.

A person can only win the trust of others if he is grateful.

The grace of dripping water, when thinking about the spring.

Be grateful for others, be grateful for nature, and be grateful for every plant and tree in life, one porridge and one meal.

Always be grateful, be grateful and cherish blessings, life will become better and better.

If you don't read for three days, you will feel disgusting and your language will be boring.

Keeping one's habit of reading means that one still has the ability to renovate and the possibility of improvement.

The running water does not rot, and the household pivot does not stalk.

Only when the water flows can it be kept clear, and the door shaft can be rotated frequently to prevent it from being eaten by insects.

Only by renewing people from time to time can they not become rigid in their minds.

When people reach middle age, read more books.

Not for exams, nor for showing off.

It is to renew one's own life and make life more exciting.

It is to enrich one's soul and let people live more calmly.