Between People

 

The most comfortable relationship between people is that no one has to please anyone.

If we invite too many people into our lives and they can't get into our hearts, it will only disturb our lives.

We don’t need to live what everyone likes, and we will never live what everyone likes.

A well-known painter worked hard to create a painting that he believed to represent his highest level. He believed that no one would dislike this work.

So he took the finished manuscript to the street and placed it in the most conspicuous position on the street, and added a note next to the manuscript: "Please mark what you feel is not good on the drawing."

The result was unexpected, and the superscript was full of marks.

The painter was surprised and deeply disappointed. At the same time, I am also very puzzled that my level should not be like this.

A few days later, the artist brought an identical painting and placed it in the most conspicuous position on the street, but the note beside it was changed to: "Please mark the most beautiful place you think."

In the evening, when the painter retrieved the painting, the painting was still covered with marks, but the original accusations have now become praises.

The painter suddenly realized that everyone has a different view of the same thing, whether it is beautiful or ugly.

There is no one thing, no one person in the world that can be liked by everyone.

Instead of racking your brains and thinking in vain about how to live what others like, it is better to try to live what you like.

There are always such people around:

They may not look amazing, maybe they are not outstanding, but they have a different kind of charm invisibly, which makes people want to be close to them.

They make people feel comfortable, and being with such a person is like listening to soothing music and sipping a cup of mellow hot tea, making the time as calm and pure as flowing water.

During the conversation, no matter what the words are ups and downs, they can answer every sentence gently, and never let a sentence fall or bump.

Neither humble nor overbearing, decent and polite, but not overly flattering, but like a spring breeze. With such people, it always feels like time flies quickly.

Such a person will not deliberately please, deliberately make others comfortable, but his every move will make people want to live with him from the heart.

Two people get along with each other with courtesy, and both parties pay each other, instead of feeling that whoever owes others can be comfortable with each other. Whether it's relatives or friends, it should be the same.

To be a good person, you need to worry about everything around you. But being a whole person can live out the truest self.

The most comfortable relationship between people is not to please.

You are who you are, and I am who I am, no one needs to cater to others deliberately.

In doing so, we may lose some people and some relationships, but those who accept the true self and still choose to stay with us are the existences worth cherishing in our lives.