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Giving Up Also A Kind Of Rational Possession

Life is like a selection problem. From the moment we were born, we began to make various choices.However, it was easy to choose but hard to give up.Many people chose the fish, but they were still unwilling to give up the bear palm.Giving up had become a kind of anxiety and depression, a burden and shackle, and even a kind of suffering and disaster. Knowing to give up was a kind of wisdom in life.People only had two hands and a mouth. There were only so many things that they could grasp and enjoy.As the saying goes, "there are three thousand weak people in the world. Only one scoop can be used to drink." it was a reflection of loyalty and love, and also a guarantee of success in career.Human's energy ability was limited, and there had never been a real "Almighty".Only when you learn to give up can you concentrate on your choice and try to break through, to maximize the advantages, to work with ease, to do things with all your heart, to achieve big things. She kne...

Life Is Like A Cup Of Water

Life is a cup of water, and its taste depends on your choice. Everyone's life was like a cup of water when they entered the world. Later, some people put honey in it, and some put tea, juice, salt, and even poison in it. It's your right to put anything in the cup, and the taste you have tasted is the result of your choice. Don't blame anyone.  Treat the glass of water well, keep it clean and sweet, and live a natural and sweet life.

Calm Heart

In life, everyone would encounter all kinds of problems and difficulties, but why could some people face them frankly, while some people still hold them in their minds? The key is whether you can be calm. The so-called peace of mind was the stable output and input of the spiritual energy. There was no psychological reversal, no trip, no short circuit, and no bad contact. The so-called peace of mind was the bright and peaceful aura released after the mental energy was stable. This aura had a strong affinity and attraction. Therefore, the most powerful aura came from the calmest and calmest mind. It was often said that the child's heart was the Buddhist heart. The reason why the child's heart was like the Buddhist heart was that it was simple. A simple crystal clear heart can make our aura as bright as sunshine. Concentration and simplicity had always been one of the secrets. It might be more difficult to make things simple than to make things complicated. You have to t...

Put Down Is to Have Better Pick Up

She had to learn to let go of something before she could move on.Otherwise, the past is like an invisible hand, grabbing you all the time, making you unable to continue forward.She would accept everything when she couldn't bear it.When you know how to accept everything, you will understand that the past in life is the best arrangement. She put it down in order to pick it up better.Letting go of some people and things meant letting herself go.What did he mean by giving up?When you mentioned it again, you didn't have any emotional ups and downs. When you shared it with others, you were calm, as if it had never happened to you. When you are sad, you should know how to let it go.She could go out for a walk or give herself a quiet space to relax.Bad things always happened in one's life.If everything goes well and as you wish, this is not life. The cultivation of life was to comprehend the meaning of life in pain.Everyone had his or her own mission to live.What you need to do is ...

You Have A Good Character, You will Have A Good Destiny

Someone said, "between people, what makes people feel comfortable at first may be your words, but later it must be your character that makes people believe.". To be a person, one should be at ease. No matter how many years they had known each other, when people talked about him, they could sincerely say that this person was really good! The biggest attraction between people is not your appearance, wealth or talent, but the trust, sincerity and kindness you give each other. Because life was not all about profit and competition, but more about mutual achievement and warmth! As the saying goes, "if you want to do something, you should be a holy being first." good character was the guarantee of a person's status and identity. It was the golden signboard in your life journey, and also the identity card to guarantee your personal charm. It was the foundation of your society. As the old saying goes, "a wise man is the king, and a wise man is the slave." it co...

God Does Not Bully People Who Are Kind

A small victory depended on wisdom, and a great victory depended on virtue.A gentleman is a man of great virtue.The most charming person in the world was never a shrewd person, but a kind person. There was an old saying, "people are doing, and God is watching."If someone bullies you, God will protect you;If someone owes you, God will pay you back. God does not bully people.He was so kind and won people's heart! 1. He is the most powerful backstage. Kindness was not stupidity, but accomplishment, kindness, not incompetence, but conduct. Being honest was the foundation of a person's life. Being honest was the evidence of honesty. Being a kind person, one could keep his heart. No matter what happened, he could always follow his heart. It was precisely because of his kindness that he was worthy of the heaven and earth. He had the courage to be the backstage and was fearless. 2. More cunning and reliable He was a kind and honest man, always more shrewd and reliable than ot...

Sing A Good Show Of Life

 Life was just a play.In this play, everyone played a variety of roles such as "scriptwriter", "director", "main character", "supporting role". You are a scriptwriter, because the plot of the whole life is written and planned by you;You are the director, because you are in charge of the development of the plot and the whole process of the performance; You are the main character. Because the success and wonders of the life play are decided by you; You are a supporting role, because the play in life is not only you to "act", but everyone has to "perform" on the big stage of life. You have to cooperate with all the "actors", and you have a close relationship with them. Whether you perform well in this play depends on the audience's support.If you perform well, someone will naturally cheer for you; If you don't perform well, people will shake their heads and frown;If your performance is ruined, no matter how civi...

When You Are Content Then You Will Be Happy

People's hearts were simple, but less greedy;It was easy to be satisfied without greed;It was easy to be contented and easy to get happiness. There was no lack of happiness in life, but the eyes that found happiness;There was no lack of happiness in life, but a mentality of feeling happiness;Life was full of happiness and satisfaction. In real life, happiness and sadness would often knock at the door of one's heart at the same time. Whoever was invited in would be with him;Misfortune often came from oneself, troubles often came from comparison, and pain often came from dissatisfaction.There was no pain in life. Once there was desire, pain would entangle her body and heart. "A contented person will always be happy." it was a mantra that had been used for thousands of years to persuade people to change their mind. The more one tried, the more interesting and reasonable one would be“Contentment was a way of doing things, and joy was a kind of relief for [æ‚ æ‚ ]. Only when y...

Better To Work In Hurry Rather Than Rushing

 A farmer picked up a handful of oranges and went into the city to sell them.It was getting late. The city gate was about to close, and he still had two miles to go.At this time, a monk came over. He rushed forward and asked anxiously, "little monk, is the city gate closed in front of you?" "Not yet."The monk looked at the oranges in his arms and asked, "are you on your way to the city to sell oranges?" "Yes, I don't know if it's too late." The monk said, "if you walk slowly, maybe it's not too late." The farmer thought that the monk was joking with him on purpose, so he muttered with dissatisfaction and hurried on his way.He was so anxious that he trotted. But before he took two steps, he slipped and the basket of oranges rolled all over the ground. The monk rushed over, helped him pick up the orange, and said, "look, why don't you walk steadily?" The farmer was afraid that the city gate would close, so he kep...

Seeing Through Is The Best Life

People are always influenced by their moods. What kind of mood they have, what kind of life they have. Life, always surrounded by dreams, how big a dream, how much hope. Life, there are always some things can not get, in the feelings of loss, sigh with emotion; There are always some easy to get things, but do not know how to cherish. Always in understand, just know to lose too much, and lost, never come back; Always in understand, just know have too much, so live too tired, and lost the original good life. Life is short. Don't waste time. In the face of time, no one can win it, because it has never been waiting for anyone. Yesterday is wonderful, has become the past; No matter how busy you are today, don't forget to enjoy happiness; No matter how slim tomorrow is, there will always be hope. In life, there will always be some people or things worth recalling. Encountered, should cherish, because the will come; If you miss it, you don't have to regret it, because no one can k...

I Always Believe In Love

 I don't know when I started, I became easygoing in looking forward to being loved. Now I do not want to fall in love, do not want to know a person bit by bit. It's not because I'm cold, it's not because I'm cold, it's just that I feel that the love I meet is too fast, so fast that I haven't considered whether to accept each other's favor, the love has shifted. Oh, actually, it can't be called love. Let's put it on the account of freshness first. Most of the time in my life, I like to be alone. I'm sentimental when I walk. I don't like to talk very much. I like to keep silent all the time. The content of chatting with strangers is only limited to asking for directions. I refuse any chance for others to get close to me. I don't know which link is wrong. I'm always misunderstood at some time. In other people's eyes, my role is set as: XXX has a boyfriend, she always has. I have nothing to say about it. After all, I really don...

I Thought You'd Be As Upset As I Was

 Sometimes I ask myself, what do I get in a relationship? I didn't get anything, I didn't keep my beloved lover, I didn't get better, I just got more and more tired. You pull away from love faster than I expected. I thought you would be as sad as me for a long time. I don't know if I overestimated my position in your heart or underestimated your healing ability. The worst thing about a relationship is that it deprives a person of the courage to love and be loved. No matter how good the next person is, you are still scared. After separation, always thinking about a question, what do I mean to you? Did I mean anything to you? Now it seems like a lot of more than, anyway, you do not love the end of all of us, friends give a word of comfort do not want to hear, I understand the truth, I understand who can live without the truth, but I did not you really happy. When we are together, we will quarrel occasionally because we don't agree with each other. We will make you unh...

Still Remember That Moment Of Joy

 I'm a person who has few friends, to be more precise, no friends. I am a person who is tired of maintaining feelings. When I see some friends here, I may feel that real friendship does not need to be maintained and can last forever, but in fact, some real friendship also needs to be maintained for a long time. Many years ago, I met a girl, she is slow heat type, I am fast heat type, later because of some learning reasons, we live together. At that time, I used to sleep in on weekends, so I didn't have breakfast. She had to eat three meals on time. Every time at the weekend, she would get up early, and then go out to buy vegetables and cook breakfast. Until the end of this process, she would knock on my door and let me get up for breakfast. I didn't feel too happy at that time. My feedback to her is naturally to wash dishes and provide emotional value. We are basically very happy together most of the time. She even said with a serious face to me one day, "I'm so ha...

Curiosity Is The Best Trigger To Break The Emotional Comfortable Circle

 People get along with each other, there will always be their own way, a long time on the same person, a long time will form a comfort zone. As long as two people get into the comfort zone, the relationship will be difficult to break again. Even if you have a great emotional breakthrough with her in the future, it is inevitable that you need to break the comfort zone. Success or failure lies in how to break the comfort zone. If you don't want to break the comfort zone, but want to go further, it's basically hard to change. In real life, how many people's relationships begin with friends, classmates, colleagues and strangers? In these relationships, colleagues, friends and classmates are basically inherent communication identities, and it is often difficult to break this layer of relationship. If we want to further develop into a couple or other relationship, we often need to break this layer of relationship, Make further breakthroughs. In the above relationships, colleagues...

There Was Dirty Behind All The Good Things, And Good Bhind All The Dirty Things.

 Only those who were extremely short of love in the original family would have illusions about love, longing for love from beginning to end, forever and dilapidated. The truth was that such a person had an inner child who hadn't grown up yet. He just wanted to find someone to rely on and be responsible for himself. The bottom level needs not to find love, but to find a father or a mother to love him. So the people who talked about love all day long were actually "giant babies". It didn't matter whether they loved each other or not. They just worked together to survive. The only reason was that they inherited the genes in order to pass on the genes and make you have the sexual needs. When two people walk together, they are actually a combination of current needs. I can meet your needs, and you can satisfy mine. When the needs don't match, naturally the strong will be eliminated, and the weak will not let go.Since no one could be eliminated, they could only make do ...

I Just Miss You

Lillian is feeding me again, a person who doesn't like to go out. Fruits of various colors. Vegetables of all colors. All kinds of packaged snacks. Fried meat and vegetable dishes; Mixed cold dishes; She even cooked some ready-made food. Lilian's favorite son is in it. "What's wrong with you? Come and eat." "I have been having dinner in XX family recently." Everyone knew that Lilian’s son was in love. Since she fell in love with him, she seldom came to my house. They barely had dinner together and even didn't talk much on WeChat. But all these could not defeat seeing her happiness. Lilian’s sonsaid that we were very similar. The "temperament", the laziness and wayward But it's not like that. I'm the kind of person who can't hide my feelings. I talk to my best friend, but Lilian’s son is the kind of calm. I didn't know she was in love until she had been in love for three months. At that time, I thought may...

A Person Who Was Left Halfway

One day when I woke up She checked her phone Only to find that we haven't talked to each other for a long time "Good morning, good night." And I found that I seldom talked about the trifles of life to you I won't tell you even if I have something delicious to eat "Let's have dinner together next time you come back." I won't tell you anything interesting "Let's play together next time you come back." They walked on the street and saw a loving couple And I won't send you a message full of grievances "I also want you to stay with me." In the midst of the teleportation At this ordinary moment In the past few days I suddenly found that I haven't sent you a message for a long time I complained about work to you It was sad at first Every time I wait for you to reply, I will wait until midnight Maybe you have too many things to do every time Maybe you forget what you promised me every time Maybe every time I see the evidence a...

I Miss You Every Day When I Can't See You

It's raining outside I miss you all the time I want to see you. Come on, come on. I'm waiting for you. If you don't come, the rain will stop. So I can't whisper how much I miss you. I can't mix my words with the rain. What if you hear me clearly. If you don't like it, you may feel that I'm offending you and keep a distance from me; If you like, I don't have the courage to say that I am with you again. So come while it's still raining, OK. I want to see you. I'll see you now.

Progress Every Day

 Since how to make progress every day, the key is how to write. Every day, what will happen, what will not happen. Every day, what will happen, what will not happen. Now, it is very, very important to solve the problem of making progress every day. Therefore, Su Shi once said that those who made great achievements in ancient times not only had extraordinary talents, but also had perseverance. Although this sentence is very short, it makes me think about it. In conclusion, generally speaking, we must consider it carefully. The key to making progress every day is how to write. After the above discussion, what is the crux of the problem? After the above discussion, the Japanese proverb once mentioned that misfortune can become a bridge to happiness. It doesn't stop me from thinking. What is the crux of the problem? Why does it happen every day? However, even so, the emergence of the day up still represents a certain significance. This fact is of great significance to me, and I believe...

Release You I Get Freedom

Recently, because of the successive examinations, I was a little anxious and flustered in reviewing, But I didn't tell my friends, because I was afraid of infecting her with that anxiety. So only one person, in the brush topic reading, eating and sleeping, brush topic watching drama, eating and sleeping repeatedly. After watching a movie, I can't forget the scene of the final reunion of the hero and heroine. The two people in the movie are thousands of miles apart. Because of the plot setting, they end up with the joy of the audience. Looking at this ending, I suddenly want to ask why there are not so many "long goodbye" and "Reunion" in reality. When I was a child, cats and mice were always fighting, and the beauty of mutual dislike and never giving up filled my whole world; After growing up, the youth love movies will continue to lead the way after many years of absence. The setting of meeting again has puzzled me for half of my life. However, the fact is ...

The Country Of Fools

The little boy was cheated into a gold city where he could only enter but could not leave. He met the same little girl. Fortunately, the good magician took them in and saved them from becoming slaves. The little girl wants to go to the fool's country to find her mother. The magician helps them escape from the gold city. But on the way, the two children fall into the trap of the forest witch. When they escape, the witch turns them into animals. With the help of a mysterious man and a big eagle, they come to the mountain at the end of the world to seek the help of Mrs. Morningstar. Can she restore the children's human form, and can ya Ge fulfill her wish? There is a rebellion in the fairy tale kingdom. Mrs. Morningstar gives two children a task. Can they defeat the giant liar, save the cursed children, wake up the lost residents and find their way home? In the dark, love, honesty and courage are the light on our way.

Why Do Some People Look Very Good, But They Don't Necessarily Have A Good Fortune

The good fortune represents the economic environment in this life. People who have good fortune do everything smoothly; Without Ford, you will encounter difficulties in everything you do, and you are often at a loss. Therefore, the cultivation of blessing newspaper is very important. There is a Chinese saying, "under a big tree, there is good shade.". A tree has dense branches and leaves. The bigger the shade, the more people can enjoy the shade under the tree; On the other hand, if there is no big tree, people will lose their shelter. As far as the family is concerned, if the parents do not have good news, the family will suffer. It is very difficult for the children to study and do anything.   It's the same with the company. If the person in charge of the company doesn't have good luck, it will be difficult for the company to develop and the employees will suffer. On the contrary, if the person in charge is blessed, he can shelter many employees; When the go...