There Was Dirty Behind All The Good Things, And Good Bhind All The Dirty Things.

 Only those who were extremely short of love in the original family would have illusions about love, longing for love from beginning to end, forever and dilapidated.

The truth was that such a person had an inner child who hadn't grown up yet. He just wanted to find someone to rely on and be responsible for himself. The bottom level needs not to find love, but to find a father or a mother to love him.

So the people who talked about love all day long were actually "giant babies". It didn't matter whether they loved each other or not. They just worked together to survive. The only reason was that they inherited the genes in order to pass on the genes and make you have the sexual needs.

When two people walk together, they are actually a combination of current needs. I can meet your needs, and you can satisfy mine. When the needs don't match, naturally the strong will be eliminated, and the weak will not let go.Since no one could be eliminated, they could only make do with it.

How could she get rid of these feelings?

The answer was: raise the inner child, and let yourself fight like an adult, instead of being like a child, who was always emotional and waiting for others to love you.

Love is beautiful, but love is also cruel. If you don't love, you are likely to be an enemy or a hatred.

Any relationship was beautiful at the beginning. It was nothing. Breaking up and blessing each other was the true love.

Many people fell in love with each other like glue. They loved each other to the death and were reluctant to part with each other. At last, when they broke up, they fought fiercely and even killed each other.

Time will tell us the answer. It's too early to say anything now. You don't have to come to a conclusion about who is right and who is wrong. Everything is up to time.

The inner child hadn't grown up yet. When something happened, he would be afraid, worried, escape, and shrink back;She felt wronged, complained and angry when she did something;She envied and hated others when she saw them better;To see others succeed, one must be lucky, have a good background and have a good background.

Those who hadn't grown up inside didn't dare to face the real themselves. They didn't dare to be responsible for their own life and death, for their own gains and losses, for their own advantages and disadvantages, and for their own success and failure.

Those who hadn't grown up yet were subconsciously looking for someone to take the blame for themselves, and they didn't realize that this was the most terrible thing.

how to deal with it?Only when you wake up, actively save yourself, cultivate both physically and mentally, and raise the inner child can you be responsible for your own life and death, for your own gains and losses, for your own advantages and disadvantages, and for your own success and failure.

The inner child hadn't grown up yet. When something happened, he would be afraid, worried, escape, and shrink back;She felt wronged, complained and angry when she did something;She envied and hated others when she saw them better;To see others succeed, one must be lucky, have a good background and have a good background.

Those who hadn't grown up inside didn't dare to face the real themselves. They didn't dare to be responsible for their own life and death, for their own gains and losses, for their own advantages and disadvantages, and for their own success and failure.

Those who hadn't grown up yet were subconsciously looking for someone to take the blame for themselves, and they didn't realize that this was the most terrible thing.

how to deal with it?Only when you wake up, actively save yourself, cultivate both physically and mentally, and raise the inner child can you be responsible for your own life and death, for your own gains and losses, for your own advantages and disadvantages, and for your own success and failure.

There was dirty behind all the good things, and good behind all the dirty things.A mature person should not only accept the good, but also bear the dirty.

Because it was the truth, and it was not transferred by the will of a person.Just like the day and the night, you can't refuse the night just because you like the day.

You are working in the daytime and sleeping in the dark!

Everything you want in the mortal world has a price

You have been set the price yourself

Your strength, your time,

Your body, your skills and your life

Only when you realize this fact can you focus on improving your own value. You won't ask for attention, recognition, comfort, and understanding all day long

If you don't realize this fact, you will be trapped in love all day long. You will talk to others about love all day long, want others to be responsible for you, want to rely on others, want others to recognize you, and understand you.

There was dirty behind all the good things, and good behind all the dirty things.A mature person should not only accept the good, but also bear the dirty.

Because it was the truth, and it was not transferred by the will of a person.Just like the day and the night, you can't refuse the night just because you like the day.

You are working in the daytime and sleeping in the dark!

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