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  A water picker has two buckets, which are hung from two ends of the pole. One bucket has cracks and the other is intact. After every long-distance haul, the intact bucket can always deliver a full bucket of water from the stream to the host’s house, but when the cracked bucket arrives at the host’s house, there is often only half a bucket of water left. . For two years, the water picker has just picked one and a half buckets of water every day to his master's house. Of course, the good bucket is very proud of being able to fill the bucket with water. What about the broken bucket? It is very ashamed of its own shortcomings. It feels that it can only take half the responsibility, so it is very sad. After a while, the broken bucket finally couldn't help it. It said to the waterman by the creek: "I am ashamed and must apologize to you." "Why?" asked the waterman. "Why do you feel ashamed?" The broken bucket replied: "In the past two years, becau...

Although life is short, the pattern of people cannot be small. The big pattern is a kind of wisdom, and even more so, a state of life. How big your pattern is, you will have more, and when your pattern is bigger, there will be countless possibilities in your life. Be a man It doesn’t matter whether you have a high IQ or not, and whether you have a high EQ or not, it’s not a big problem, but the pattern of life must be big. To put it bluntly, you may not be smart or you may not be communicative, but you must be generous. Pattern If a little setback makes you unable to get up, if one or two bad words make you unable to let go, if you hate and hate people at every turn, then the pattern is too small. Mind How successful you are as a person. Tolerance is great; if you have no desire, you are strong. Because of the mind, it is the sign of the winner. Bear in mind Always remember this sentence: the harder you work, the luckier! Hope Except for life and death, everything else in the world is ...

 Everyone has a knot deep in their hearts. Perhaps it will never be solved, the bitterness can only be understood by oneself; perhaps it will never be able to let go, because of kindness, because of responsibility, for some reason; perhaps it will always be a beautiful landscape, which can only be quietly looked forward to and watched silently. The distance of the soul is sometimes the furthest and cruelest. In life, there is no need for too many reasons or explanations! Life sometimes feels very tired. Maybe there is too much in my heart to let go, but in fact many things are not my own, don’t need to care too much; maybe I feel that there is too little beauty to find, but in fact the beauty is always by my side, in the inadvertent years; maybe I feel that happiness is always far away , Can not be touched, in fact, a simple state of mind is the most precious life. Life is mixed with five flavors, like a book without words, but a kind of experience, a kind of precipitation, a kind ...

  Maybe our life does not have the magnificent passion, the brilliance without success and fame, and we can't portray the rich and colorful scenery; maybe we are just ordinary members of all living beings, as tiny as dust and sand, weak as mustard, and passing through plainly. But our life is plain and true and natural, and calm and happy because of plainness. After the passion is tranquility, behind the splendor is plain, just like the sea. When the tide rises, the stormy waves hit the shore, splashing like snow, although magnificent and unrestrained, but after the ebb, the waves are calm and the sea and sky are the same color, which reveals its vastness and profoundness. A grass, no matter where it is born, is always unknown and uncontested. I don’t envy the uprightness of pines and cypresses, or the beauty of peony. I stand upright every day, receiving sunlight and showering in rain and dew; breathing in the fresh air and the fragrance of the earth; listening to the singing of b...

  Between the world of life, Water can reach the sea, Because it cleverly avoids all obstacles, Keep turning forward. Many smart people failed to embark on the road to success, Many are because they hit the south wall and don't look back. There will inevitably be difficulties in life, Turning a turn and going around is not a way. The mountain does not turn, the road turns; The road does not turn, people turn. As long as the mind turns, adversity can also become an opportunity. As long as you turn a corner in your heart, Will follow the path and surpass oneself, Create a new world. Destiny is only in your control, Turning is a way to move forward. Some people say that there are two things on the way for people: Go forward and turn. Life is like a journey, all the way is hard and the scenery is all the way. After walking some roads, I know the hard work; After climbing some mountains, I realized the difficulty; Wade through some rivers, only to know the trek; After crossing some hurd...

  Once I saw a sentence, I felt deeply impressed: When we open our arms, we can say that we have nothing, and we can also say that we have the whole world. How people think, life will be like. The world remains the same, the environment remains the same, and the road under our feet does not depend on how the road is, it always depends on how we go. The same is true for interpersonal relationships. How others treat you is actually in your hands. People with a large structure know how to appreciate the strengths of others, share adversities with others, and lend a hand when they need it most. And those with a small structure always see unfriendly people. On the contrary, when people are in trouble, not only will they not help each other, they will fall into trouble. The former has a good reputation and contacts more and more; the latter has no good contacts, and the road is getting narrower and narrower. A truly strong person knows how to appreciate others and is able to continuously...

  Sometimes, the reason why you are unhappy is simply because you tend to think wildly, and you still work too little. Some things will not happen because you don’t want it; Some things will not be lost because you are unwilling. Xunzi said: The gentleman is at the mercy, and the villain is at the mercy. There are too many desires and nothing to let go. Only then will you be tired of life and live so tired. If you just think about it, you can't actually change anything, and you will worry about yourself. Just being afraid can't solve the problem, so I can just face the difficulties on my own. Rather than always thinking wildly and carrying the past, it is better to be indifferent and take every step steadily. In fact, once a person gets busy, there is no time to think about it. On the contrary, if you have work in your hands, gas in your car, money in your pocket, and electricity in your mobile phone, you have a sense of fulfillment and security. No more sorrow and anger for a ...

  Everyone yearns for happiness, and everyone yearns for happiness. Do you know where happiness comes from? Happiness comes from tolerance; happiness comes from understanding; happiness comes from eliminating troubles; happiness comes from conquering pain; happiness comes from the sunshine of the soul! As long as the heart is sunny, gloom will be dispelled, worries will be driven away, pain will be healed, understanding and tolerance will come to pass, and happiness will come to report. Indeed, happiness does not come from money, nor from honor, but from the heart of people’s sunshine! If you want eternal happiness, you must fill your heart with interesting thoughts and ideas, because if you use an empty heart to find happiness, what you get is only a substitute for happiness. " Who has never had troubles and pains? Who has never had misfortune and sadness? But the important thing is to get out of the shadows and face it with a happy heart! The troubled heart, the painful heart, t...

  Ask yourself: Are you tired of living, who to blame? Blame yourself. You run around day and night to live, I didn’t save a lot of food and money, Finally burned a sick body, I'm not blessed to enjoy it to a golden mountain; Ask yourself: Are you entangled in life, who to blame? Blame yourself. You think hard about things you can't think of, Obviously knowing that there is no result, I am still in a whirlpool, If you can’t think about it, it’s a robbery. Why bother to torture yourself too much. Ask yourself: Do you live sternly? Who do you blame? Blame yourself. I dare not say what I want to say, Those who want to love stop being shy, Always live for others to see, How many unique characters have been lost. Life is less than 30,000 days, How much time is left for you to add to your worries; Time flies for another year, How much time do you have to show your smile. The body is its own, No one pays for your health; Happiness is my own, No one holds an umbrella for your sadness. ...

  In the world, there is an emotion called anger, which no one can get rid of. Once a person has his own emotions, he will easily lose control, and his words and actions will create bad karma. Therefore, do not underestimate the results of anger, you must remember! 1. The more angry the person, the less blessing Losing your temper is called burning fortune, and burning all merit with anger. There was a person who studied Buddhism who worked hard for many years, but his life was still poor, even his wife was scattered. He didn't understand why he was doing this with great concentration, so he ran to ask the master. The master said to him: "That's because you often lose your temper. Even if the Buddhas and Bodhisattvas have great supernatural powers, they are no match for the sin karma you have created!" In this world, there is a business that will always lose money, and that is losing your temper. When you are angry, blessings are far away from you! A...

                                 Disadvantage is a blessing In ancient times, there was a good man who had a good blessing and was full of children and grandchildren. When he was dying, his sons and grandchildren knelt before his bed and said: You are leaving us, leave some last words for us to follow for life! Good people say, you only need to remember four words: learn to suffer. This kind man, his greatest concern for his children and grandchildren is to let them understand: Suffering is a blessing. In fact, a kind person will not suffer at all. What you are enduring now is created by your heart. What you will have in the future will come from the present moment. You watch people get rich, you watch people become famous, you watch people become professors, ... you feel uneasy, but have you ever thought about how virtuous people are? do you have? If you like to give, you will receive more and more ble...

Learning to weigh is a philosophy of life, and it is also a skill of life. Learning to weigh can make people move steadily toward their goals in life. Therefore, the wise must learn to weigh. Learning to weigh and find one's own role positioning is the key to a wise man standing in the world. In the process of being a human being, everything must not be strong. When doing things for people, you must first weigh your own weight, identify your role and position, understand what belongs to you, and work hard to complete it, and strive to be perfect. Learning to weigh, roundabout, and achieve win-win fame and fortune is the wise man's usual means. Throughout one's life, under the temptation of fame and fortune, how to choose will be the key to a person's achievement of great things. Everyone is thirsty for fame and fortune. Wise people try not to show too much enthusiasm for fame and fortune, greedy small gains and chaos, lest they become targets of public criticism, be hat...

Life gains and sacrifices are always proportional. This may be doubtful, but it is true. It's just that we only see our own efforts, not others' efforts, only our own efforts, not others' efforts, and even self-righteous efforts and self-moving diligence. This does not negate anyone’s efforts. Everyone is struggling for life. It is only limited by personal knowledge, vision, and environment. It is difficult to jump out of the center of self and see what they have done. Which are right and which are wrong. In fact, the blessings of life are the same. There is no long-term accumulation, no long-term accumulation, usually does not accumulate blessings, and only go to the temple to burn incense and worship a Buddha when something happens. This is a temporary cuddle. Desire is of course good, but don’t ask for Buddha, even if you are asking a stranger, your attitude is not sincere and your conduct is not righteous, people may not help us. In fact, each of us is very ordinary, an...

  Of all the despicable humanity that is enough to destroy a person, I think the most harmful thing is human display. At least for me, although showing off is a normal psychology, it can make a person become arrogant, narrow-minded, stagnant, despise others, and incur resentment on oneself. And complain. Although everyone has vanity and desires respect and recognition from others, and wants others to boast about themselves, once they are overwhelmed and immersed in vanity, they will become unconscious and difficult to understand. Pull it back by yourself. A person used to be very poor and depressed, and looked down upon by others. Now that he has a better life, he certainly wants to show off his wealth, save himself a little face, and find a little dignity. But if no one reminds you, you will lose your dignity if you show off too much. For example, I wrote an article and I was fortunate enough to be recognized by the readers. I also want to show off in my circle of friends. However...

  Kindness, Kindness is a major nutrient for health preservation. A person doing good deeds, Can often help the weak, Get others out of trouble, There will be a sense of relief in my heart. A kind person, Mentality will be at its best, Such people are mostly healthy and long-lived. Wide-hearted, Broad-heartedness means being compatible with the external world. It also means that the inner world is open, Show that you are in harmony with the surrounding world. Treat people with forgiveness, It is a manifestation of healthy quality and high quality, It is also the best remedy for the prevention and treatment of psychological diseases. Heart is right, Don't do bad things, don't be afraid of ghosts knocking on the door. As long as you are upright and innocent, You can eat well and sleep steadily on the contrary, Greed is too big, and selfish desires are boundless. Let it take the nose all day long, Make you confused, arrogant, and irrational. It is impossible to live freely. Calm, ...

  Getting along with people, It depends on sincerity, not routines. People who get along, treat each other frankly, Those who can't get along, politely greet; Don't show anyone coldly, Don't make anyone too embarrassed. There is a good saying, You come, I welcome, You go, I bless; When I am helpless, you can show up; When you are in trouble, I will not watch. You have a deep and righteous affection for me, and I will return you sincerely and honestly; You selflessly help me, and I give you tolerance and generosity. Human hearts are all mutual, If you play with your heart and soul, if you have a deep routine, No matter how good friends are, they will get farther and farther away from you. Friendship without routines is long-lasting; Friends who are not malicious are the most rare.

 The old folk saying goes: It's up to people to eat dishes. It means that different guests appear to be served on the table with different dishes, which means that people are not treated equally and cannot be treated equally. When you see someone who is more noble than yourself, take a high look. When you see someone humbler than yourself, be presumptuous. The superiority of these people comes from appearance, wealth, education, status, power, and more, it comes from lack of education and shallow knowledge. A while ago, a video went viral on the Internet. Because the waiter accidentally spilled vegetable soup, a well-known person scolded her for ten minutes. The waiter stayed with him all the time, and eventually got scolded and cried. Many people are like this, relying on their own strength, they like to bully people who are weaker than themselves. A celebrity once said: It depends on a person's upbringing, and it depends on how he treats the weak. If a person deceives, he wil...

We are ordinary lives, but we follow kindness. "At the beginning of man, nature is good." Kindness is the nature of everyone, but it is because of selfishness, bigotry, narrow-mindedness, and benefit that it extinguishes its due brilliance. Kindness needs to surpass oneself, surpass one's selfishness, narrow-mindedness, extremeness, cruelty and destructiveness. Kindness needs to be generous. Respecting others, understanding others, and tolerant of others will make our life more enjoyable; thinking about the wishes of others, anxious for others' needs, and doing what others need will make us reach the state of selflessness. Kindness will let us get rid of the shackles of fame and fortune, avoid flattering, cling to the powerful; it will make our life indifferent and plain, and show the magic in the ordinary. Kindness is ordinary, and its nobility is embodied in the ordinary. It is everywhere and all the time. Kindness can be a gift from a daughter, a righteous act to a...

  1: Good people are hard  The hardest person in the world is a good person. If you have done a good thing for a lifetime and suddenly do a "bad thing", then all the good things you have done in your life will be emptied, and everyone will point your nose to you. But if you have done a bad thing for a lifetime and suddenly do a "good thing" on a whim, then everyone will come to praise you, hold you up to the sky, thinking that you have been wronged before. The cultivation of a good person has to go through thousands of obstacles, and all the difficulties are indispensable; while the cultivation of a bad person only needs to put down the butcher's knife, and it only takes a moment. The world's requirements for a good person are really very strict. If others call you a good person, you must be perfect. Everyone will put all the moral shackles on you. Someday, if you have nothing at all. Get it right, all your practice will be abandoned, and you will even be tr...

  Blank is also a color. People are busy every day, fighting for money and status, indulging in trivia and mundane affairs, these things fill life. In this kind of life without vacancies, some of them did not win others but lose themselves. There is no blank life, there will never be peace of mind and spiritual joy. In this world, the art of living is sometimes the art of leaving a blank space. There is more than one way to live There are countless forms of life. In this world, living the life you like is the best way to live. On the road of life, learn to enjoy life and insist on finding the way of living that makes you most comfortable in your heart, which is the best. Happiness is the fragrance of the soul All beings live persistently, pursuing the sweetness of love, the success of marriage, and the success of their careers, all in order to find the fragrance of the soul-happiness. Happiness is the most thought-provoking bait that God throws into the world. When you don't get it...

  There is a transparent glass between people. We think we can see clearly, but what we see is only the appearance. How can there be any empathy in the world, only the cold or warm knows it. The sweet, bitter, spicy and salty, only the one who eats it knows. There is a transparent glass between people. We think we can see clearly, but what we see is only the appearance. A person's maturity is not in the appearance, but in the mind. Mature people never judge others easily. It is a kind of self-cultivation not to judge others easily. In many cases, the "facts" we use to evaluate others are not the facts of others, but the "facts" that we think through imagination and processing. It cannot be denied that each of us is more or less with a sense of "superiority" and is accustomed to standing on a moral high ground to point others' lives. But times are changing, people are changing, and everyone's life is different. Regardless of whether you are youn...

There is nothing we can do to change the world, nor can we change the environment, so let's change our hearts! Smiles are easy and common to learn for everyone. Smiling is a natural instinct, a human talent, and a way to express the emotions of humans. During the spring, you have the lily, during the summer, you have the calla lily, during the Autumn, you have the red maple, and during the Winter you have the Aoshuang plum. Despite the utilitarian and tacky looks, everything looks so natural. The bright smile of success can spread your joy to all; the light smile of failure can turn short-term disappointment into a cloud of dreams; smile boldly in the dark and evil will run away from you; under the sun, smile brightly and happiness will fill your heart. When you meet new people, smile, it would shorten the distance of the soul; when lovers break up, smile quietly, so that it leaves beautiful memories; when people hurt you, smile openly; any resentment will melt away. When you are f...

There was a general who had been fighting on the battlefield for a long time. Tired of fighting for years, he made a special trip to the Zen master to ask for a monk. He said to the Zen master: "Master! I have seen through the world now, please be merciful to accept me as a monk, let me be your disciple!" The Zen master said: "You have a family and social habits are too heavy. You still can't become a monk. Let's talk about it slowly!" The general insisted: "The Zen master! I can put everything down now, my wife, children, and family are not a problem, please shave for me now!" The Zen master still refused to agree: "Let's talk about it later!" The general was helpless, so he had to give up temporarily and attend the Buddha on his own. After a few days, he came to the temple to worship the Buddha early in the morning. The Zen master saw him and said, "Why does the general come to worship Buddha so early?" The general learned...

  Life is a kind of existence, existence itself is valuable, and life itself is meaningful. The meaning of life lies in progress and dedication, in continuously improving the realm of life, improving the system, improving the mind, and at the same time doing our best to serve society, to help others achieve the transcendence of life, and to also achieve our own life value. Life has value as a process. Life's long river is reflected in this process. It is only by the existence of value in life that life's long river is composed and expressed. Adding value to one's life is both about continuing the long river of life and demonstrating its full extent. It's only a spring when the vegetation grows and then withers, and a whole life is only fleeting. There is nothing more miraculous than life. Even if we exist for a short time, we should enjoy our lives, see and listen to the world around us, think and feel about it, and try our best to embrace life. Every life can emit its ...