2 Things That People Often Show Off

 

Of all the despicable humanity that is enough to destroy a person, I think the most harmful thing is human display. At least for me, although showing off is a normal psychology, it can make a person become arrogant, narrow-minded, stagnant, despise others, and incur resentment on oneself. And complain. Although everyone has vanity and desires respect and recognition from others, and wants others to boast about themselves, once they are overwhelmed and immersed in vanity, they will become unconscious and difficult to understand. Pull it back by yourself.

A person used to be very poor and depressed, and looked down upon by others. Now that he has a better life, he certainly wants to show off his wealth, save himself a little face, and find a little dignity. But if no one reminds you, you will lose your dignity if you show off too much. For example, I wrote an article and I was fortunate enough to be recognized by the readers. I also want to show off in my circle of friends. However, once I have such a psychology, I will find sentences or articles that are not to show off and suppress them. Overcome your own heart.

Vanity and show off are human nature, and it is human ability to suppress it. We must admit that we have not reached a very high level, and realize that we have to constantly improve ourselves in order to become a better person. Our ancestors told us that low-level people always show off these two things, and hope that we can be more alert to ourselves.

1 Show off your eloquence

Everyone has a mouth, as long as they are willing to open their mouths, they can speak. As for right or wrong, if there is no certain ability to reflect, few people realize their mistakes. The child said the wrong thing, the adult laughed and thought it was cute, at best it was impolite, and the two words passed. But if an adult says something wrong, no one really will tell you whether you are right or wrong. Most people still look at you and laugh without saying anything.

People who show off their eloquence and use words to attack others will become very dangerous themselves. Acknowledging that you are a dumb person, you don't know how to say it, but it is a kind of wisdom to protect yourself. If no one accuses you of a language error, please believe that what you are saying may not be right, because even your best friend will not tell you how to behave. Language is a sharp sword, which can hurt others as well as yourself.

2 Show off your smarts

People must be smart, but don't think you are smart, don't let others see your smart, let alone take the initiative to show your own smarts. As soon as you stand in the crowd, you must regard yourself as ordinary and not ordinary. I feel that I have a lot of money, but I have never seen anyone with more money. I feel that I am excellent, I have never seen a better person. Some children were smart when they were in elementary school, middle school or even university, and their parents have placed great hopes. This is a problem of education, but after he enters the society, he still feels smart, which is asking for trouble.

A person who likes to praise himself is often ridiculed by others. Being smart by oneself just reflects the ignorance of a person who deceives himself and others. All human beings are created equal, but there are definitely different levels in life. Whether you show off your eloquence or intelligence, if you can’t break through your own limitations and develop to a higher level, you will have very great achievements. limited.

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