Not Living In The Evaluation Of Others

 

There is a transparent glass between people. We think we can see clearly, but what we see is only the appearance.

How can there be any empathy in the world, only the cold or warm knows it. The sweet, bitter, spicy and salty, only the one who eats it knows.

There is a transparent glass between people. We think we can see clearly, but what we see is only the appearance.

A person's maturity is not in the appearance, but in the mind. Mature people never judge others easily.

It is a kind of self-cultivation not to judge others easily.

In many cases, the "facts" we use to evaluate others are not the facts of others, but the "facts" that we think through imagination and processing.

It cannot be denied that each of us is more or less with a sense of "superiority" and is accustomed to standing on a moral high ground to point others' lives.

But times are changing, people are changing, and everyone's life is different. Regardless of whether you are young or old, don't try to apply your life experience to someone else's life. You don’t know all about other people’s lives or what a person has.

People in the world must learn to respect each other. It is a kind of respect not to judge others easily. I know your opinion. Although I am different from you, I respect you and I will not force you to accept my opinion.

Whether in work or family life, always keep in mind the word respect. In family life, treat children and give them ideas like old friends, but never intervene easily in evaluating children's lives.

Not living in the evaluation of others is a kind of wisdom.

Everyone has different understanding of life and different pursuits. Your yardstick is not the yardstick of others, and the opinions of others do not represent your opinions. Don’t let others’ opinions affect your life.

Not living in the evaluation of others is a kind of wisdom. As long as the principles are not involved, just listen to what others say. You can't satisfy everyone, so why do you wrong yourself for others.

People don't need to live in the evaluation of others. A good life is not to be seen by others, and you don’t have to care about others’ perspectives and expectations. Don’t compare, don’t mind, living happily is more important than anything else.

No matter how important others are for a lifetime, they are far less important than yourself. Others are always bystanders of your life, and only you are the helm of your life.

Not living in the evaluation of others is a kind of wisdom. Being surrounded by the words of others is the normal state of life. Each of us can't completely get rid of the words of others, but we must pay attention to whether these words have inspired you or are destroying you.

You are you, a unique individual, no need to compare with others, and no need to cater to others.

Not easily evaluating others is a kind of cultivation; not living in the evaluation of others is a kind of cultivation. Mature people never judge others easily, nor will they live in the judgments of others.