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Don't Forget About Each Other

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  It once occurred to me to go to a place that no one knew, hide in the mountains and plains, and just watch the clouds and the clouds, sunrise and sunset. There is no return for real love, and dreams have no directions. When I am alone, I write my worries into poetry, talk to myself, fight against fate, and go for happy times. I cry and become strong only after my tears have dried.As he stands alone in the wind, he doesn't know which way to go or where the distance is. Do not lose your heart in the chaos of the city, but stay in the noise of others, and lock your melancholy. On a rainy night, open the window, and you can still see me through the window. My poetry line falls on the desk as you look through the window. Dreams come to you night after night, mountains and rivers shine, you guard me. As long as this rainy season continues, every drop of rain finds its way into the lake, how long do we have to wait for the reincarnation of the first life?

Love Without Regret

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  Falling in love is a matter that happens to boys and girls. When we are not careful, we fall in love, and a love begins. A breakup or a marriage may result from a love affair. Each situation is different, so the outcome varies according to the relationship.Despite the fact that they all want to get married, because of conditions and environmental factors, their final results are also different. There is always something beautiful about talking about love. When we are together, we experience feelings, but we also experience subtle things as well. Boys always ask girls, do you regret being with me?As long as you truly love each other, there is no regret.Even when money or profit are involved, love is always willing, because it is selfless.It won't matter what the other party does as long as everyone is treated well. Love is altruistic, so I won't worry too much about it. Once you've fallen in love, you won't regret a thing. If you truly love each other, you will never b...

Old House

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  When packaging some emotions, he is careful to keep them in the bottom of the box so that they can't be lost.Several years ago, a cat crouched on a chair and witnessed an undisguised retraction. I am wondering what I can do to soak up my nostalgia that will squeeze out the water, those wet attachments. The vegetable garden infested by morning frost in February, the peach petals in the air behind the kitchen in March, the poplar trees that sprout in the wind in April, the dandelions flying everywhere in May. A bluestone slab at the entrance of the old house was polished and thin during my childhood. One by one, past events hang on the bluestone slab, becoming longer and thicker, clogging the mind. On the bluestone slab, I could see the hare that had been caught by my brother. It stared at us with pitying eyes without eating or drinking. The hare was eating sticky soy milk powder that we gave her. There was a strong smell of milk powder. I also saw the little birds that we successf...

A Plum Tree In My Hometown

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  In my township, there are many beautiful plants. A beautiful, fragrant and lovely tree dominates the old house's garden next to a water bridge.She is only a few meters away from the graveyard where I was born.She and I have been good friends since I was a little sensible. The old plum tree, which I have missed for nearly seventy years, still shows its enchanting figure to me from time to time, despite the fact that I have been away from the old house for a very long time. During my childhood, I pulled weeds near her with bare feet and applied fertilizer to her roots. She is wealthy and looks like an old man who is kind and strong. When I visit her, I read the text aloud, hum a little tune, and invite a few friends to play with her. We occasionally see four or five unknown little birds, hopping on the branches, singing songs only they can hear, looking at us with admiration. On the slanting branches, light green buds bloomed one after another, sparkling in the gentle sunlight, as ...

A Life Of Pursuit Leads To Happiness

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  When chasing a red sun, a strong body becomes a mountain of love that supports it; when pursuing a dream, all the effort becomes the horizon to reach it; when chasing a success, confidence turns into a view that demonstrates it. The suitor was traveling. As he stepped onto the loess under the scorching sun, the heat wave hugged the dry dust and burned his chest. Would he go that far? How long will it take? I don't know. Neither of us knows. With his hot heart and determination blood dripping all over, he continued to walk forward with the indelible pursuit in his heart. Walking calmly, firmly, insistently, freely and bravely are all characteristics of the suitor. The suitor entered the Gobi and walked into the desert. He encountered an old man. Young people, don't move forward. There is gravel in front of you that will pierce your feet." The suitor smiled: "Let the dripping of blood become seeds. Treat me to Ganquan, this is an oasis." He continued to walk forw...

What Does True Love Look Like

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 Love is a lamp that illuminates the distance ahead in the dark; love is a poem, a warm and yearning heart in the cold; love is the rain of spring, the wind of summer, the fruit of autumn, and the sun of winter . For a long time, many people have been surrounded by feelings and confused. They don’t know the blessings in the blessing. The more they can’t get, the more precious they feel. In fact, love has always been by your side, and you need to feel it with your heart. Care with love. Someone once asked me: "I love you, have you loved me?" I didn't answer his question directly, just a short reply: "If you can't give each other the life you want, you can't talk about love." This is the only answer I can make clear to him, and it is also a respect and rejection of him. What is love? What is love? The answer lies in each of us. The more people and things we experience, the more we can look down on life and understand what we want, what we really need, and ...

I Have A Dream

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  A dream-filled life is perfect and fulfilling. We all have dreams in our hearts. No matter how big or small your dream, as long as you work hard and pay for it, it will come true! I had a dream when I was young. My dream was to become a kite, flying in the blue sky, then falling slowly. Then, I often played on the green grass with my companions, chasing the white clouds in the blue sky, letting the laughter float along with it, and dreaming colorful dreams all day long. I had a dream when I could read. Basketball was something I wanted. I wanted a football when I was holding a basketball. Volleyball became my pursuit again after I played football. As one dream after another became a reality, I began to believe that the dream was not far away. Playing childishly will bring the dream to be. I dream when I am ignorant. So, I hope I don't have a lot of homework every day and I can play a little more. Nevertheless, our spare time is becoming a little deprived, and more and more time i...

Being Serious

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  There is a famous writer. When he was a child, his family was poor and his parents used tofu to make a living. When the morning did not start, he and his brother got up to work, and the two ruled the streets. he... In the early 1980s, with the spring breeze of reform, the whole country showed a prosperous scene. A young teacher in a middle school resigned and jumped into the business sea out of a desire to start a business. At that time, highways were being built everywhere. After analysis, young people knew that participating in highway construction would surely make a big difference, so they kept running to the capital to look for opportunities. Finally, once, he got an order with a total of 294,000 yuan. The content of the project was to build 3 small culverts and the construction period was 140 days. In fact, this is a project that no one is willing to accept, because after five subcontracts, the accumulated management fee is as high as 36%. To complete this project, you will...

Talk Less, Control Less

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  People's whole life, There are many things we can't do, Many people cannot be pleased by us. We can only live our lives well, Don't care about other people's nostalgia, Talk less gossip about others. Some troubles were found by myself, Some troubles are caused by myself. Many things, no need to ask, Just take care of yourself, What others do has nothing to do with yourself. Be a human being, Less control is a kind of wisdom, Not to mention, it is a kind of self-cultivation. If you don’t manage, you can fight far away, Say less, and there will be less disaster, To manage and talk less is a sign of blessing. Gossip, It starts with the villain and ends with the wise. Less gossip, Is a kind of respect for others, It is also responsible for myself. Not so much gossip to cause trouble, It's better to shut up and live quietly. You are not someone else, I don’t know what people have experienced, What happened, To be merciful is to accumulate morality, Mind the nostalgia, ...

Practice Yourself

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  Every one of us lives in practice and also practices in life. " Life is a rush that goes without return, and life is a never-ending practice. In the huge dojo of Hongchen, we are all cultivators. How far a person can go depends on the height of his cultivation. Your appearance is your destiny. If a person is disgraced all day, the good things in life will gradually fade away from you. Cultivating appearance is to respect others, but also to please yourself. No matter how old people are, they can't give up the pursuit of life. You can have no outstanding looks, but you can have a good figure through exercise; You don’t have to wear big-name clothes, but at least you have to keep yourself tidy and clean. A decent appearance is the best modification for the years. Only those who take life seriously can get the favor of life. Your appearance is your destiny. If a person is disgraced all day, the good things in life will gradually fade away from you. Cultivating appearance is to ...

Think, See Through, Let Go

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  I have always believed in one sentence: No matter who you meet, he is the person who should appear in your life. It is by no means accidental. He will definitely teach you something. Thousands of worlds, vast seas of people, no matter where you go, what kind of experience you go through, what kind of people you meet, what kind of story happens, everything should happen, the scenery you should pass by, and the scenery you should reach. distance.  This journey will make you lose and gain, but they are all shaping a newer you. If there is no owe, how can we meet each other. If this is the case, then treat everything that happens with a normal heart, cherish it when you have it, and say goodbye seriously when it comes time to say goodbye. One thought of suffering, one thought of happiness, one thought to gain, one thought to lose! In life, it's harder to think about it, but it's harder to give up. Many things are not, you can let go if you want to let go, and you can give up if ...

Emotional Stability, The Best Upbringing

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  Life is not all smooth sailing, everyone will have emotions, which is normal. But emotions are like water, which should be dredged and not blocked. Learn to control emotions. You can't overemphasize emotions, and you can't blindly curb emotions. Life is not for losing your temper. As the saying goes, "Everyone has a temper. It's instinct to show it out, and it's ability to suppress it." Emotional peace is the ability to digest negative emotions on its own. Not only will the boat of marriage avoid all the hidden rocks, but the happiness index of marriage will also increase. Controlling emotions best reflects a person's character. When everyone has emotions, the master of life must be someone who can control their emotions. The best way to cherish one's life is not to maintain health, but to manage emotions. Traditional Chinese medicine also often says: joy is sad, anger hurts the liver, grief hurts the lungs, worry hurts the spleen, fear hurts the kid...

Don't Tell Tales

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People who make fun of people are generally shallow people. They think they are superior and better than others. He doesn't understand, there is no difference between people, People who think they are smart are actually the stupidest people. People who make jokes are usually very jealous people. Fear that others are better than yourself, make people angry and laugh at others. Want to stand out and be respected. He doesn’t understand, ask others to respect you, We must first know how to respect others. People who laugh at people are generally narrow-minded people. Whoever offends me, I will make him smell bad, I even want to ruin the future of others. They forgot the principle of "being kind to others". Everyone is thoughtful and self-respecting, You should respect others in any situation. Wise people are open-minded people, They know how to respect people. "Compare your heart to your heart" and be kind to those around you, Instead of hurting their dignity. To be...

Practice Yourself In A Low Profile Way

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  In a person's life, there are nothing more than two things that can build one's foundation: one is to be a human being, and the other is to do things. Indeed, the difficulty of being a person is difficult to stabilize the mind from restless emotions and desires; the difficulty of getting things done is difficult to sort out the clues from the entanglement of conflicts and interests. And the way of life that can promote oneself, develop oneself and achieve oneself best is: "Be a low-key person, and do things high-key." Cultivate yourself in a low-key: low-key life is a kind of advancing, retreating and defensive whether in officialdom, shopping malls, or political and military struggles. Humility is always present in the world: Humility is a kind of wisdom and the golden rule of being in the world. People who know how to be humble will surely be respected and admired by the world. Great wisdom is like foolishness, it is really a trick to nourish time: "Great wis...

Life As Passerby

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  Life is a passer-by, so why be persistent! When a person reaches a certain age, he begins to understand that some things are destined to be uncontrollable. You must always learn to let go and know how to do whatever happens. What you are pursuing may be a emptiness in the end. It is not that you are not working hard enough, but the beginning and the end is doomed. As time goes by, time becomes more precious. You can't squander, and you can't afford to squander it. When you look back, your youth is no longer, and the people and things you cling to have long been past. Life is a process, no matter what you need to compete. Be a man, be down-to-earth, have a kind heart, treat people sincerely, and have a clear conscience. People can get along well if they get along, and forget it if they don't get along. Who do you want to be with, let the flow go. It's yours, cherish it, don't force it if it doesn't belong to you. When you can't handle things, let go. Don...

Peace Of Mind

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There are two levels in life, one is the material life, and the other is the spiritual life. The spiritual life includes the life of art and the life of faith. Most people have a material life first, and then pursue a spiritual life after having no worries about food, clothing, shelter and transportation. Read and study to increase knowledge; emotional satisfaction, share sorrows and joys. With a spiritual life, we need an artistic life, from music and painting various artistic activities, to conserve our spiritual food. With an artistic life, we also need a life of faith, hoping to transcend and sublime our lives and find a way to liberate the body and mind. There is a master whose poetry, music, and even Jinshi calligraphy and paintings have become famous all over the country before he became a monk. However, he was on the peak of artistic splendor, turning around in an instant, and he suddenly entered the indifferent life of a monk. The master withdrew from the celebrities in societ...

Everything Will Pass

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A long time ago, a king wanted to find a sentence that would make happy people sad and sad people happy. He searched for a long time but didn't find it. Until one night, he dreamed that the wise man said a word to him, exactly what he was looking for. The most miraculous sentence in history is: All this will pass! No matter whether it is good or bad, nothing can last forever. When you fail or suffer, tell yourself: everything will pass! When you are successful and proud, you must also know: everything will pass! A good life is a process, not a state; it is a direction, not an end. Perhaps, you are proud of your ambitions and have a high position. Thousands of people promise promises in one word; sweet words in the ears; at home, full of friends; when traveling, hug before and after. But don’t forget: everything will pass! When you go to power, you have to go down. Life is like climbing. The time to reach the top of a mountain is often the shortest and least lasting. The most eterna...

People Are Always Mutual

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  People are always mutual. If you love others, others will love you; if you help others, others will help you. You do it to others, and they will reciprocate to you. You give the world a bit of love, and the world will return you a bit of love. So please don't be stingy with your smile, kindness, tolerance, understanding and respect, because the relationship between people is always mutual! Only when a person has a tolerant heart can he be tolerated and treated kindly; and only when he is treated kindly by the world! Plant tolerance and reap fraternity; plant joy and reap happiness; plant satisfaction and reap happiness. The weakness of human nature is that we often see the shortcomings of others but fail to see our own shortcomings; however, everything in the world is mutual, and people will reciprocate you as much as you give. Don't judge people and things around you at will, because you are not involved in his life, how can you feel the bitterness and bitterness of others, ...

This Is Life

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  In life No matter how much regret, how much soreness Fortunately or unfortunately It's all past and once Put it down, it will be easy In life No matter how brilliant or wonderful How many twists and turns, how many failures Will never be perfect If you work hard, there will be no regrets! Life is like a dream, not a dream, because it's too real Life is like water, not water, because of bitterness Many things in life depend on oneself Many feelings are personal Little things are hard, but the road is wide. To be a man needs to be diligent, and to do things one needs to bury one's head The mind needs to be broadened, and the mentality needs to be leveled Cherish the happiness around you and appreciate what you have Let go if you can't move your back, take it lightly if you can't hurt Throw away those who can't figure it out, and smooth out those who don't hate Life is not easy Life is not long Why use unnecessary troubles Worrying about myself, hurting years...

Everything Is The Best Arrangement

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  No matter who you meet, he is the person who should appear in your life. It is by no means accidental. He will definitely teach you something. Life will always give you the answer, but it won't tell you everything right away. A traveler saw a mother-in-law beside a big river, worried about crossing the water. Exhausted, he exhausted all his energy to help his mother-in-law cross the river. As a result, after crossing the river, the mother-in-law said nothing, and hurried away. The traveler was very regretful. He felt that it seemed that it was not worth exhausting to help his mother-in-law, because he didn't even get the word "thank you". Unexpectedly, a few hours later, just when he was too tired to move, a young man caught up with him. The young man said, thank you for helping my grandmother. Grandmother asked me to bring something and said that you need it. After speaking, the young man took out the dry food and gave him the horse under the hip. All stories will ...

Look Coldly

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  Never judge an independent event. Looking coldly and calmly will not obliterate you, on the contrary, it will show your rationality and maturity. A big show, don't rush to applaud in a busy place. After the show, the actors remove their makeup and the audience disperses. You go home for the month, soak a pot of old tea, and sip it carefully. Active judgment means that you are an agitator, not a neutral one. Moreover, a simple binary judgment is either black or white, good or bad, and it is easy for certain emotions to grow and arrogant. Don't judge, it doesn't mean you are a fool. In fact, you are judged, but you can easily become a fool. No matter what you say or advocate, once you are fooled, deceived, or deceived, you are essentially exploited. There is a saying among the folks that you are sold and you count the money for others like a fool. Unless you understand the ins and outs of things, the justice you see may not be true justice, and the ugliness you see may not ...

Not Greedy Or Denounced

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  A believer said to the master: "My wife is greedy and stingy. She is not willing to even a little money to do good deeds. Can you come to my house with compassion and teach my wife to do some good deeds?" The master is a happy person, after listening to the believers, he agreed very compassionately. When the master came to the believer's house, the believer's wife came out to greet him, but she was reluctant to bring out a glass of water for the Zen master to drink. So, the master clenched a fist and said: "Madam, you see my hand is like this every day, what do you think?" The believer's wife said: "If the hand looks like this every day, there is something wrong with it, it is deformed!" The master said: "Yes, this is deformity." Then, the master stretched out his hand and asked: "What if Tiantian looks like this?" The believer's wife said: "This is also deformed!" The master took the opportunity to immediate...

It's Easy To Persuade Others

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Some things are easier said than done; some people are easy to persuade others, but difficult to persuade themselves! Because, to persuade others, you only need to talk to them; to persuade yourself, you have to change your heart and persuade. And it is really difficult to make one's heart change. People will persuade others not to be angry, but they cannot persuade themselves. Throughout the ages, "the authorities are fascinated, and the bystanders are clear." People always like to say, "Don't punish yourself with other people's mistakes." Happiness is a day and troubles are also a day. This is a well-known principle, but when it's your turn, it doesn't help. In order to keep away anger, worry, sadness and sadness, apart from the comfort of friends, the most important thing is to persuade yourself. Think about the people around you, look at the things around you, if you want to live happily, unless you are not angry. People will persuade others ...

Self Management

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  A person's life is actually a game between oneself and oneself. At any time, one's greatest ability is not to give up the requirements of oneself and to manage oneself well. Image Management Some people say that middle age is a watershed, and if you don't pay attention, you will live very awkwardly. I don’t know if you find that as the age grows, the people around you gradually divide into two groups: A group of "greasy" middle-aged men who have been ravaged by time and become ragged and out of shape; The other group seems to have eaten preservatives, letting time be tight, and the elegance of the past is not diminished. In the life of ordinary people, who doesn't have the pressure of firewood, rice, oil and salt, and trivial trivialities? In the vastly different images, there are different attitudes towards life, as well as a person's true age. The older these years, the more I agree with one sentence: "The image of management is not superficial, b...

Good Heart, Good Fate

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Life, each person only has one time, long or short, Life, everyone is going on, sad or happy; In life, everyone is on a journey, ups and downs. No one is perfect, nothing is perfect, Some villains, you don’t have to worry about it, it will be annoying to care about; There are some complicated things, you don’t have to care about it, you will be tired; The world is big and the hearts of the people are mixed, how can you not meet the villain? The world is very deep, and the world is glitzy, how can there be no troubles? Think shallowly and look lightly! I'm wronged, silently speechless; Misunderstood, smiled slightly. If there is no sunshine, just listen to the wind and watch the rain; No flowers; just sniff the fragrance of the earth, Without applause, enjoy the tranquility of being alone. Keep a good heart, walk a good way, Cherish the truest emotions, Feel the recent happiness, Enjoy the most beautiful mood, As time goes by, the years change. No complaint, no bitterness, no sadnes...