Self Management

 

A person's life is actually a game between oneself and oneself.

At any time, one's greatest ability is not to give up the requirements of oneself and to manage oneself well.

Image Management

Some people say that middle age is a watershed, and if you don't pay attention, you will live very awkwardly.

I don’t know if you find that as the age grows, the people around you gradually divide into two groups:

A group of "greasy" middle-aged men who have been ravaged by time and become ragged and out of shape;

The other group seems to have eaten preservatives, letting time be tight, and the elegance of the past is not diminished.

In the life of ordinary people, who doesn't have the pressure of firewood, rice, oil and salt, and trivial trivialities?

In the vastly different images, there are different attitudes towards life, as well as a person's true age.

The older these years, the more I agree with one sentence:

"The image of management is not superficial, but respect for oneself and respect for life."

No one can compete with time, but a person's image can be created by himself.

There is no need to pursue any abdominal muscle vest line, it is enough to control your mouth and open your legs;

There is no need to pursue any brand price, but at least it must be clean and decent.

You know, the true aging of a person is never the increase of age.

It's the loss of the love for beauty and the demand for self.

Whenever, don’t give in to life, don’t bow to the years.

The best skin care products in the world will always be your self-discipline and impatience.

Body Management

A while ago, a sad news appeared on the hot search.

A real estate chairman in Zhuzhou went to the hospital for treatment due to long-term fatigue and was found to be myocardial ischemia.

The doctor asked him to be hospitalized immediately for observation, but he didn't take it seriously.

Who ever thought that he would die suddenly after only five days of refusing to be hospitalized.

Overnight, the academic qualifications and wealth of the prestigious schools he was proud of were all in vain.

Only the young daughter and the young wife are left alone in the world.

Apart from sighing, this also sounded a wake-up call for each of us.

As one netizen said: "Health is 1, and everything else is 0. Once there is no 1, there is no point in adding more 0."

All overdrawn health must be repaid hundreds of times afterwards.

Managing the body is the most important investment in the world.

Every time you go to bed early, get up early, and eat regularly, you are saving energy for tomorrow.

Every drop of sweat you shed is investing in your health.

Children around the knees, great rivers and mountains, and strong physique are always the basis for enjoying happiness.

There are old people at the top, children at the bottom, and a healthy body is the confidence to cope with life.

Emotion Management

I have heard a very reasonable sentence:

"Emotions are like a sea in a person's heart. Those who meet can ride the wind and waves, and those who don't fall and are swallowed."

When you get into trouble, your mentality explodes, and as a result, simple things become a mess;

Arguing with your lover over a trivial matter, when your mind gets hot, you start to turn over old bills;

Seeing that the child is not conscious of learning, he feels angry and anxious, and says something hurtful when he speaks...

We have all been swallowed up by sudden emotions at a certain moment because of something.

Many regrets and regrets in life often come from this.

As the old saying goes, you can be angry, but you can't express it in anger.

Really mature people know how to manage their emotions.

They never get angry when they shouldn't lose their temper, and they don't get in a hurry.

Don’t mess around because of anger, and don’t use bad emotions to influence others.

Words Management 

A writer told a story in the book.

One day in the middle of the night, her roommate was cracking in the living room to pack things, making her so noisy that she couldn't sleep.

She was baking bread in the kitchen the next day, and the girl accused her of putting the dirty dishes in the sterilizer as soon as she came in.

She quarreled with each other angrily and said a lot of bad things on the way.

In the end, he learned from another roommate that the girl’s father had passed away last month.

Recalling this incident later, she was deeply moved:

"Never speculate and blame someone who doesn't understand, because you don't know what the other person has experienced."

In this world, no one can truly understand another person.

It seems that the domineering person may have an unknown wound behind it, and the person with a bright smile today may not be able to cry last night.

Sometimes a word that you carelessly may be an injury to others.

The old saying goes well: "The benevolent do not take responsibility, and the good do not comment."

Don't talk about hurting people at any time, and do less impulsive things.

Only by managing your words and deeds can you cultivate your heart.

Social Management

In the circle of friends, life circle, and workplace circle, people are always alive without the word "circle".

After dealing with all kinds of people, you will gradually understand:

In the relationship of friends, quality is far more important than quantity.

Multiple friends do not necessarily mean multiple paths, and may add a lot of burdens and troubles.

Just worry about dealing with the wine board and dinner, but will ignore those who treat you sincerely.

I always agree with one sentence:

"You have to manage your interpersonal relationship, not let your interpersonal relationship manage you. Eliminate irrelevant people from the circle and concentrate on maintaining true beneficial friends. Only those who truly understand life are the ones who truly understand life."

The sophisticated and hypocritical circle of friendship should be broken;

Consume your negative energy circle, pawn;

Do not belong to your social circle, when you are away.

In a human world, why bother to invite too many people in.

There is no point in how many people you know. What is really valuable is who you are and how many people treat you sincerely.

To screen friends is to sort out your life, and to manage your circle is also the beginning of self-improvement.

The circle is clean, the talent is comfortable; the relationship is comfortable, the talent is comfortable.

Since I exist, no matter what, I have to take responsibility for myself. "

When a person lives, he must be responsible to himself before he can be responsible to others.