The Two Happiest Words

 

The happiest way to live in this world is just two sentences: troubles are there every day, don’t pick things up!

No one's life, the sunshine and the moon will always follow; no one's life, the joy and laughter will always accompany.

There are always some difficulties and some pains that we need to endure and bear.

People are alive, everyone will have troubles, every day there will be troubles, the most important thing is that if you ignore the troubles, the troubles will naturally disappear!

Therefore, the happiest way to live in this world is just two sentences: troubles occur every day, not picking up naturally nothing!

I remember seeing such a story before:

An old monk walked down the steps in the dark. He suddenly felt that something was stepped on under his feet. He said, "Ahhhh, I must have trampled on a frog."

In the middle of the night, he dreamed of countless frogs coming to beg him, biting his feet and pulling his clothes. The old monk screamed and awakened, and quickly called all the disciples to come to the Buddha to confess their sins.

Early the next morning, an apprentice saw a trampled eggplant at the bottom of the steps, only to realize that the frog that Master said yesterday was an eggplant!

The old monk was very enlightened and said: "It turns out that I have my attachment in my heart, so I will scare myself! Because "I" will be attached, and I find trouble for myself."

After reading the story, I can’t help but think of an experiment done by a psychologist:

The experimenter was asked to write down all the "worries" in the next seven days, and then put them into the "worry box". After a period of time, let the experimenter open the box and check them one by one.

As a result, 90% of the "troubles" did not really happen.

There is nothing wrong with a person’s long-term vision, and there is nothing wrong with being prepared for danger in times of peace, but don’t let “thinking too much” affect the present, the future will not be as bad as you think.

The lowest point of the valley is the starting point of the mountain. The reason why many people who walked into the valley can't get out is because they stopped their feet, squatted in the valley and wept.

So, no matter what, no matter what you encounter, don't just squat in the valley and cry, remember to smile and encourage yourself.

When you are unhappy, think about how many days you have left to toss, and if you understand, you will never be angry anymore.

When you are troubled, think about life as subtraction. When you meet and lose one side, what else can you worry about? Don't forget the kindness, don't think about people's faults, don't think about people's faults, don't count people's grievances.

When you are sad, think about life as a passing, coming naked, going naked, without a trace of dust or half a cloud.

When you are dissatisfied, think about comparing with the rich, we are happy if we live to be content. Compared with patients, our health is happiness when we live. Compared with the dead, we are happy to be alive. If people want to live well in this life, they have to be simple and confused.

When you are angry, think about whether it is necessary to be angry for people who are not worthy, eat well, sleep well, take care of your old age, and spend money well.

When you care about it, think about people walking in the world. It's a emptiness. Why bother to care about everything and not letting go. Talking too much hurts others, and thinking more hurts the mind. Instead of hurting others and hurting the mind, it is better not to bother the mind. For the rest of my life, I will be ashamed of my heart and be at ease.

Some people say that life’s troubles are more than three thousand like hair.

Some people say that there are three thousand things in the world, and they smile indifferently.

Life is impermanent and people's hearts are fickle, why bother with those right and wrong? If you are indifferent, it doesn't matter if you are right or wrong; if you let it go, it will be the same thing.

No matter how time passes, some things will not change, that is, the pursuit of beauty, the desire for true feelings, give yourself a piece of indifferent.

Don't be trapped in emotions, and don't regret it.